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Moving On
One by one
Getting it done
Moving forward
Moving on
After years and years
Of starting over
Over
And over again
Stuck in the doldrums
Wanting to move forward
But all movement is lost
Lost in the waves pulling me back again
But finally I caught a wave
That helped me slowly make progress
Slowly but surely
Moving toward the shore
I am almost there
I can almost count the strokes left
Finally moving forward
Moving on
Free
Throughout most of my life I have felt like I’ve had to start over. I have felt like I kept getting stuck at the beginning. I was always paying my dues and it felt like they never amounted to anything. I would give my job my all with the hope that I would be recognized and rewarded by moving up. There were some financial rewards but I was always stuck at entry level. I wondered if people would ever stop taking me for granted and taking advantage of my hard work. Once I realized that was not going to change in the career I was in I changed. I decided that if I was going to do something and be stuck, I might as well enjoy what I was doing. I thought about how to make my life work for me and I designed a life that did exactly that. Getting to that point has taken a lot of time, planning and work. I realized the other day that I am finally living that life I dreamed of plus some.
I still have some room to grow and progress to make but I no longer feel like I’m stuck at the beginning. I am not stuck at all. I feel free to be my best self. I am free to do the things I have always wanted to do but had neither the time nor the energy to do them. Sure my life is always busy, but it is so much better than being sad and stuck.
If there is something you have always wanted to do, I encourage you to explore it. I have a friend that says, “A job is not a tattoo. If you don’t like it, you don’t have to stick with it.” There is certainly fear in taking the risk of completely changing your life but there is also the possibility that things just might work out the way you want them to.
Destination
I am a Pilates Instructor and I have found that goals are incredibly important when I am teaching. Instead of just flopping about and not knowing where you are going in an exercise it’s helpful to have a destination. Whether that destination is knowing the next version of the exercise is or just how many repetitions have to be done it makes it much easier to do what is asked. It’s like having a roadmap leading you along the way rather than wandering directionless. If I know that the goal is to flow through the exercises without stopping that is going to change my workout. We often need to be reminded of where we are going even if we know it like the back of our hand. There is usually another way than the usual way that is helpful to explore.
I am at that point right now. I am taking stock of my goals and reminding myself of the goals I have accomplished. I am refreshing the goals that have yet to be met and am proud of my progress in that process. I am approaching the goals that have been harder to work on with a new mindset. Sometimes the process is recession before progression but I am working on the forward motion as much as I can. I just go back to my roadmap, changing the direction as needed but still moving forward.
It is easy to get caught up in the minutiae of life. I can easily get caught up in the minutiae of an exercise. But sometimes you need to zoom out and look at the big picture. I remind myself, I am here. I am working towards my goals. I am going to get this done even though it is not perfect. At the end of the day I will be one step closer. And then one day I am surprised when the goal is accomplished.
Is there a goal that you need to revisit? Let me know in the comments!